How To Help A Child With Asperger's Syndrome

By Max. D Gray. Updated: January 16, 2017
How To Help A Child With Asperger's Syndrome

If your child is diagnosed with Asperger's Syndrome, you may be feeling negative and miserable, but as with any other type of disorder, you should learn exactly what it is and accept it. Feeling okay about it is essential to helping your child develop fully. So at we'll help you learn how to help a child with Asperger's Syndrome.

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Steps to follow:

Get information about Asperger's Syndrome, learn about it and understand it. In these cases, it is also important to know how to differentiate Asperger Syndrome from Autism. Help your child understand it; to be able to help them, you first need to understand it yourself.

How To Help A Child With Asperger's Syndrome - Step 1

Get help from professionals because they can help and guide you in these cases. Coordinate the child's home life with the professional treatment.

How To Help A Child With Asperger's Syndrome - Step 2

To help a child with Asperger's syndrome, learn techniques (taught by a specialist) to practice at home with your child.


Go to social skills groups with your child to improve their interpersonal communication. Help your child with social communication so they know what to say and how to say it. Similarly, when they have incorrect or inappropriate responses (lack of emotional and personal understanding), explain why they are inappropriate and what would have been the correct way and why.

How To Help A Child With Asperger's Syndrome - Step 4

Establish a close relationship with your child's teachers to work together to coordinate work routines with the school.

How To Help A Child With Asperger's Syndrome - Step 5

Set predictable routines at home to help your child feel safe and perform the tasks expected of them (morning, noon, afternoon, evening).


Set house rules and if necessary depict them on the wall with drawings to indicate what they are and make sure your child knows what is expected of them (for example, "put your hands on the table" would be better than "stop hitting" because they will better understand what is expected of them and when).

Having them on the wall serves as a reference for when they're needed (be consistent) and the drawings are important so they can put pictures to the words and memorize them. Try to use only positive reinforcement and avoid punishing or reproaching them for not understanding, as this will only frustrate both of you. It is important to praise them for what they do well.


Invite children from your child's school over to play and help your child learn to play (but keep your eye on them). Choose children who may have the same interests as your child and have an easy-going personality.

How To Help A Child With Asperger's Syndrome - Step 8

Limit their repetitive and insistent questions on their areas of interest to just part of the day as a daily routine to avoid them obsessing.


Try to broaden their range of interest. For example if they like forest animals, try to also focus their interest on forests and on the animal kingdom separately.

How To Help A Child With Asperger's Syndrome - Step 10

Do not ask your child to do more than they can. It is important to remember that their concentration is limited and it is preferable to have them do a few things well than many when they could get distracted and not finish. Limit time.


Conquer their previously fears of unknown activities or people.

This article is merely informative, oneHOWTO does not have the authority to prescribe any medical treatments or create a diagnosis. We invite you to visit your doctor if you have any type of condition or pain.

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Cheryl Frank
We believe two of my grandchildren have Asperger's or spectrum 1. Questionnaires have been completed and presented to school personnel who have confirmed that the kids, especially the older one, need to be evaluated. Their mother will not follow up. She fills it will take too long (5 years to see a doctor) so she depends on friends and articles to give advice. What can I, as a grandparent, do?
Matthew Nesbitt (oneHOWTO editor)

The Asperger¡s/Autism Network is a great resources to not only find out information, but to connect to other people affected by people on the autism spectrum. This is their website and it is a great resource:
Maria Martinez
I have my son of 28 years old, and I need to know how can I help him to improve is his daily live.. my concert is his social skills. you may know places where he can fit with this big issue he has. plelase let me know if is a some school or therapy center for him. thanks.
OneHowTo Editor
Hi Maria,

It will depend where you live. However, you can easily google services in your location. If you are at all unsure, speak to your local government and they should be able to direct you to the right information.
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